Question: I have been celebrate for almost three years, and am terrified to “get back out there.” Any tips on how to reverse or overcome my apparent phobia?
Answer: This can be a scary question to even ask, the I applaud you on putting yourself out there by showcasing self awareness of your [...]
Question: Does semen whiten your teeth?
Answer: As much as you may want to hear that swallowing in the course of a blow job will act like Crest Whitening Strips, I hate to break it to you; this is one of the many myths associated with sex, and semen specifically. And while we’re at [...]
I frequently speak on disability awareness, the intersection between disability and sexuality, and other such awesome topics. One big part of that when speaking to able bodied folks is talking about how to make their education and workshops that THEY provide more accessible overall. Here are some quick tips to think about when writing/talking/presenting, whether [...]
Question: We’re a college age lesbian couple. We don’t have a ton of cash, so we can only buy one or two toys right now. What is the best sex toy for lesbians?
Answer: That looks like a question with an easy answer, but unfortunately, it is not. There is no one perfect sex toy…for [...]
One of my favorite things to do is speak on college and university campus about sexuality. Whether it is a talk about safer sex, communication, anatomy, intersections of identities, inclusivity, kink 101, or a class on sexual activity, college students are some of my favorite learners to have in front of me.
However, sometimes it [...]
Everyone (or almost everyone) knows my vulva puppet Vivianne:
However, Vivianne (provided for me by Fascinations) has never been alone. She has her little sis, Val (short for Valerie) purchased for me by a dedicate reader/fan of mine:
And now, the two have been joined by a third, soon to be revealed purple [...]
Surprisingly, sex education is a fairly thankless job. While there is often the bonus of fun work which I am passionate about, and the occasional free sex toys to test and review, overall, there is a lot of drama. You have to promote yourself constantly to get bookings, you usually have to work a full [...]
Hello!
As many of you may know, I am the newest addition to the Board of Directors for the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health in Pawtucket, RI. The Center is an incredibly important space, both physically and in a general sense – a place for people to come and learn about sex; reading books, [...]
Hey Folks!
I’ll be in Philadelphia and New Jersey June 30th – July 5th, and have some open slots for one on one, two on one, three on one, etc sex coaching and counseling sessions, as well as invididual or group classes and workshops. Go ahead and contact me to let me know if you’d [...]
Do you like pancakes? Do you like building and supporting local community? Do you like working together to work against violence, particularly within and against the LGBTQ community?
GOOD NEWS!
July 9th, from 9:30-11:30 am, at East High School in Denver, is the 4th Annual Pancake Breakfast, put on by the Colorado Anti-Violence Program. [...]
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Support Your Sex Educator Sex education is not often the high-paying and oh so glamorous job people tend to believe it to be. Between travel and lodging costs, items for demos, paper, printer ink, hosting fees, continuing education classes and more, it can add up. If you can, please help support sex educators to keep classes frequent and affordable!
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