Ain’t Nothing But A G-Thing Video

Here is a video of one of my classes at Fascinations back in the beginning of August in Scottsdale, AZ, talking about G-spot play, female ejaculation, vulvar anatomy, and much more. From my vulva puppet Vivianne, to fabulous sex toys, to lots of laughing (both me and the students), this is a fun and educational [...]

Call For Submissions: Dear Sister

Special thanks to Holly over at Menstrual Poetry for passing on this call. As a fellow survivor of sexual harassment, assault and violence, I think this is a wonderful idea, and an amazing way for us to get our voices heard, and to stand up against a society that still condones such behavior. While this [...]

Living Without Gender?

So I don’t propose life without gender. I LOVE my gender and its complexities. I love my partner’s gender. I love reading about gender, and talking about gender. I love gender. But I do suggest the removal of sex from IDs, as I see no reason for it to exist, and so many reasons for it not to. [...]

The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health’s 2nd Conference

Below is a letter from one of my absolutely favorite people, and one of the best and brightest sex educators in the field, the lovely and talented Megan Andelloux. In addition to traveling the country providing sexuality education to colleges, medical schools, toy stores and more, she is also the founder and operator of the [...]

Sign Up for My Newsletter!

I’ve decided to go the trendy way, and have a fancy schmancy monthly newsletter. Want to sign up for it? (I promise not to send it more than monthly, not to spam you, sell your info, etc) You can either click here to register for it, or put your email address into the oh so [...]

What Communication Is NOT

We spend so much time talking about communication, and how important it is. I can’t even count how many times I’ve said “communication is key” to classes I’m teaching, or couples that I’m counseling. And it’s true; without good communication, it’s hard for any relationship (whether long term or short term, sexual or platonic, etc) [...]

What’s Up with the Butt Video

Hey all -

It’s a few months old, but I finally found a recording of my June Anal 101 class (entitled “What’s Up with the Butt”) that is in pretty good shape. It’s before I got my anal puppet sadly (I’ll try and get a picture of that up shortly), but if you weren’t able [...]

Fascinations 25% Off Sale

Today, Fascinations has a sale happening online, and at its 16 stores (in Portland, Colorado and Arizona). Basically, to sum it up, everything is 25% off. Period. Sex toys (dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, etc), lingerie, books, DVDs, bath products, lubes, massagers, etc. All of it, 25% off.

So if you’ve been waiting to buy that [...]

Video Review: Ice Vibe by Touche

So here we have a vibrator that is a little different than your average vibe. Why? Because it’s coooooold. It’s a vibrator that uses/is made of ice. Not even kidding — this is the Ice Vibe by Touche. It’s a silicone toy with a little traditional bullet vibrator, but the actual part that winds up [...]

Censor This II

Michael Barone is one of my favorite photographers. I’m so sad he lives in Philly, as I would love to shoot with him more often. I love how he pushes the edge of art, examines sexuality, and creates beautiful pieces. If you’re in the area, I highly recommend going to this exhibition. Below is one [...]