Teaching Equals Joy

This past weekend, I got to teach a bunch of Fascinations staff members in the Phoenix area. Every month or every other month, our staff gets sexuality education and product knowledge training in both Denver and Phoenix, and this month I got an hour to talk about whatever I wanted before JimmyJane and System Jo [...]

A Letter to Mayor Phil Gordon

Dear Mayor,

I am fairly new to Arizona, having moved here this past fall with my partner from Colorado.

The day SB1070 passed and was signed was the day we thought we’d made a mistake about moving here. It is shameful to us to be living in a state that so blatantly perpetuates racism and [...]

FemQuake Love From Maymay

Maymay is a brilliant, sex positive activist, writer, educator and all around awesome person. You can check out his blog, or find him always on Twitter.

And he decided to do something really sweet. He wrote a post about me for FemQuake. I am a FemQuaker now.

I thank him for thinking of me, and [...]

Video Review of the Lelo Ina

In case you’re interested, here is another one of my video reviews from Fascinations, filmed by the lovely director Matt.

This particular video review is of the Ina by Lelo. It’s one of the first rechargable, medical grade silicone, rabbit style/dual stimulations vibrator available on the market, and I’m blown over by the beautiful [...]

A Thank You To Femmes

I’ve been seeing this video pop up on various blogs and social networking sites all week, but I just now had the time to watch it.

And I cried. A lot. It hit so close to home, to my experiences, to my partners (past and present), to my invisibility, to my having to repeatedly out [...]

Meeting Kelly Shibari

Last weekend, I attended the Phoenix Forum, a conference for adult industry webmasters and companies that work well with them.

While there, I had the pleasure of meeting up with and dining out with the lovely Kelly Shibari, BBW pornstar, PR/Media Guru and the driving force behind the amazing new site: PaddedKink.com.

Kelly [...]

Tax Relief Day: Save Some $$$Tax Relief Day: Save Some $$$

Today is Tax Relief Day at Fascinations, so you get 25% off your entire purchase (no minimum purchase) in any of the 16 stores (in CO, AZ or OR) or online, plus free lube, and free shipping if you buy online. Click here to go shopping. Good from 8am to 11:59 PDT ONLY TODAY (April [...]

New Car Happy DanceNew Car Happy Dance

This post has absolutely nothing to do with anything deep or sexuality based.

However, I’m estatic. I have a new (used) car. Having moved to Phoenix with my partner for her job, I brought with me my 2003 Dodge Stratus Titania. The problem, you see, is that Titania didn’t have a working air conditioner. Or [...]

Stop Shaming and Stigmatizing Sexuality

This is cross posted from my other blog, but I feel that it is incredibly important for people every where to read things like this, and to stand up against hate, against stigmatism, against the ridiculous accusations and name call that is loaded onto us by people who claim to be “academics.” It is high [...]

How Many Licks: Adventures in Cunnilingus 4/7

Looking for something to do tomorrow night? Perhaps you want free cupcakes, drinks, a free $10 gift card, and the chance to win a free raffle for a Lelo Ina, Lelo Liv and Lelo Gigi? Or maybe you’re just super excited about getting to attend a FREE (18+ only, please) class on the art of [...]